Danny Trotter was not always a health-conscious, hard-working man. The truth is that he experienced and overcame some rather unfortunate events in order to develop into the person he is today. Danny is open with his personal story in the hopes that it will help others discover that they, too, can turn their lives around.
I was in an abusive marriage for seventeen years. it was difficult living in fear. I had married my high school sweetheart and we had a son.
I had graduated from barber school and started working at the top hair salon in Fargo, North Dakota, and little by little my husband came to a point where he didn't like me cutting men's hair. I then went to work in retail and became a Department Manager for Cosmetics, where that led me to my job of 16 years with L'Oreal Cosmetics.
Slowly I started seeing things. He didn't like my family nor very many of my friends. Slowly my friends went away and we moved far enough away so we couldn't see my family. I always had things that he needed to be done, and then he would check them to see if I did them and grade me. Meanwhile he was watching TV, and it was never to his standards. It did not take much and his voice was screaming. I became very quiet and became a yes person just so I wouldn't get screamed at. My son also became quiet.
I made the decision to leave my marriage when it became physical. I did not have any family nearby to depend on, so I prayed to God to protect and take care of me and my son. We had to get out of town. The pain, agony, and the afflictions that we went through were insurmountable.
During this period of my life I reached out to the healing rooms in Spokane. I started attending Bible Study for Women at my church. I was attending a women's prayer group called Companions. My son and I also served some meals for the Union Gospel Mission. I started making greeting cards and sent out at least three a week to different people just to let them know I was thinking of them. It helped me to heal my pain by reaching out to others that were hurting or in need.